Love your job, but don’t love your Company
Infy people know this quote as NRN’s, others as Abdul
Kalam’s. Let me not get into the problem of who really said it. But I lived
otherwise. I never liked my job but I loved Infosys. If not for Infosys I’m
sure that I’d not have survived these 9 years in IT industry. Infosys has to be
both blamed for not letting me continue with my passion as well as acknowledged
for keeping me sane.
It’s going to be really long note; I love doing auto biographies as much as I love writing. Other than travelogues and reviews I haven’t written a personal piece for a while so read it at your leisure time.
So ya… where to begin. The beginning of course. May be much
earlier than that. It was in 2010 when recession was at peak. Well, everyone
tells that when they studied there was recession, like how everyone said there
was no water in their streets during 2015 floods. So there is no hard and fast
rule as when exactly recession happened and for whom. I like one of the quotes
which my dad said, “Recession is when others lose job, and Depression is when
you lose job”. I haven’t really gotten a job back then and wasn’t really
worried too. I made my mind that I won’t get job, if I get it I’ll be happy, if
not I’ll remain the same, like Madi Padi Madhu. I decided one thing for sure
that I would not study further.
The arrear in the fourth semester in Signals and Systems
where I got 6 marks and on reevaluation 12 marks, made me the person I’m. I
became calmer when it came to exams and I could clear them going forward. So
when the Infosys interview happened I could meet the criteria of not having any
arrears. I knew Infosys is my only chance as they were the only ones who don’t
ask technical questions and there was no quantitative aptitude in written exam.
A week before, TCS interview happened which I didn’t clear.
Like everyone we attended Infosys interviews like a bunch of
clowns wearing full formals for the first time. They hardly paid any attention
to it. The written exam was fairly simple which had logical reasoning which I’m
good at. I got through it. Then the interview happened where I took a huge 3-page
resume listing out all my hobbies, ‘attending’, not winning various symposiums.
Of course they didn’t mind that too. As I had mentioned reading books as my
hobbies the interviewer asked about what’s the last book I read. I told Harry
Potter. She asked what I thought about the book and who’s my favorite author or
something. I don’t remember. But I remember that I blabbered so much she
thought that I put ‘reading books’ in the list like everyone who puts it in their
resume. Actually just two months before, I had completed all 7 books in two months’
period. I thought of saying that there are better authors than J K Rowling but
I couldn’t convincingly say. Wish she had asked about some spells rather than
that.
So after a wait for some time I was asked to attend another
interview with a much elderly person. He asked about my dad’s job and I was
able to talk properly. Results came in a while and I was selected. My best
friend who couldn’t attend due to his arrears had come just for me, was there,
so it was a joy to celebrate. It was night time and going by college bus felt
good for the first time.
As soon as I went home and told that I got placed, my dad
who was eating, got up from the floor and shook my hands. Everyone were happy.
I too was. I thought that my whole life was going to change post that.
It indeed was, it took a while for offer letter to arrive
and the date was somewhere in October which meant there were full 8 months for
me to binge on movies, get six pack, learn guitar (it was around Varanam Ayiram
time) and become master of the world. Add to it I had only two working days in
college. It was heaven, seriously.
The first IPL happened around that time, I spent four hours
in gym in the evening, from the time it opened to the time it closed. 4 to 8.
Everyone there were people who were in last semester trying to build their
physique so that they can woo an IT chick once then set foot in their campus.
Whether or not I got a six pack is another question but the dedication I had with
respect to diet was something that even now I look up to, to get some
inspiration. I was terrific.
Everyone wanted to do some part time job before joining
office, I was the only one who wanted to watch as many movies as possible. So
when the revised date of joining came, everyone else except me were happy. The
date was July 10th. Yeah, that was our batch, July 10 LC3 NCS.
Suddenly all my plans were spoilt. I continued gymming
vigorously as I had paid for six months. Movies took a back seat and I became restless.
So much so that I started to take an evening walk. My mom was shocked. I’m
never a walking person.
I somehow muscled through the semester and cleared. How I
cleared TV and Antenna, I still don’t know. But looking back, that was one hell
of a period, those six months were divine.
Here comes the real beginning. For Mysore, I got formal
branded costumes, Esprit watch for 3700, woodland shoes for 3500 and what not.
My dad accompanied me in train to Mysore which was full of Infy people, it was
like a field trip. On the way, got few friends from my class and the next
section, mostly assholes. But I didn’t have another choice. My dad being there
was annoying, I couldn’t actively get involved with people around there.
The next day as we set foot, the cold breeze welcomed us,
the place was beautiful even before entering the campus. The campus had so many
soldiers guarding it with gun and the parents were asked to wait at a common
place as we entered. We got our rooms next to each other and were then taken to
the top floor from where we could see a structure similar to so many in English
movies like pillars and all. One look at the GEC and we were like WTF. I’m sure
everyone who had been to Mysore would be gasping reading this.
We were all glee as we were taken by golf cart to our rooms.
I had to go meet my dad who was leaving by Shatabdi that afternoon. I was in a
hurry and to find the route to Fiesta was such a pain on day 1. I asked so many
people and finally went to say bye. There wasn’t any emotion. I was more
excited on exploring the campus.
After getting awed by the rooms we went on exploring the
place. Enroute, I met a lot of school friends and few college mates. I had a
point and shoot Sony camera which I used to the fullest to take photos. The
Sunday passed so quickly. I was very excited for day 1. I decided to get up at
6, do some floor exercise and get ready for Induction. I did the same. It was
damn cold and I was damn sleepy but still got up on time. For one week I took
photos of my daily wear. I looked pathetic in formal.
The disappointment grew further when we walked to the
multiplex. So many well-dressed people and here I was looking like a buffoon. The
induction was hectic, I struggled really hard to stay awake. It was a huge batch
with strength more than a thousand, so girls were asked to sit in balcony and
the rest below. Of course after a day, many smart asses went to the first floor
making our stomachs burn.
While going for lunch I told my friends that I saw so many
good looking girls, much more than what I had seen in my entire life. Of course
in a much colloquial tone but you get the point. You’ve to see it to believe
it. That too coming from a crappy college like me, it was a dream. I felt as if
I’ve arrived.
The induction took place for three days followed by ILI I
believe. Which again was good. Somewhere the name list was put up with names
and classes. Everything was in alphabetical order. We were searching for girl’s
name next to us like how we do in railway reservation chart. I was the only
lucky one to have a girl next to me. Quite expectedly and much to the joy of my
friends, she looked horrible. Not only that, we never got along during the
entire tenure.
After a basic computer class or may be after the first term
I’m not sure, we again had an ILI which was good. So far so good as I had
cleared the exams. I sucked in all public speaking sessions, otherwise anything
non-technical was fine for me. Barring for one incident where I was friendly,
asking marks to everyone, there was one guy who used a cuss word against me in
front of everyone. He’s an asshole, no one denies that but at that time it felt
bad.
The first exam I cleared easily as it had questions like
what is computer. The next exam was slightly tougher one PL/SQL where I had
practicals. I suck at practicals, every time I attend exam I’ve heart in my
mouth. With that much beats per second I don’t know how I didn’t get heart
attack. It was a similar situation here too where people evaluate our code in
front of us. I felt horrible. I suck at coding. I somehow got pass mark in both
Hands-on and theory and cleared the exam.
Then came the first project experience, which again was
horrible. Four random people would be chosen to get into a project, not
alphabetical order. All of us were excited. I had already selected my dream
girl in the class to be my project mate, Upasanna. And everyone had their own,
Veera had Sushree, Vasanth had someone, everyone had someone but to our horror
everyone in our group were our college mates. We mutually hated each other.
Everyone had got at least one girl in their batch, at least one person from
other college to befriend but we idiots were placed together. Others called us
lucky but we writhed inside. With no interest, we finished the project.
The second term started with a bang. RDBMS was the subject
with most credit points and everyone termed that as most important. I flunked the
first time as well as in the retest. The horror show started post that where I
struggled to clear each and every exam, every time the dev square results get
loaded I got mini heart attack. So the ‘practicals’ problem from the college
continued. Needless to say, the on the spot correction of code didn’t help. I
guess in the meantime we had one week leave for Deepavali. We had to work two
Saturdays instead of it, people easily agreed to that. I actually didn’t want
to go home till the completion of training but as it was said that the DC would
be closed I went home, watched ‘Naan Mahan Alla’ which I didn’t like much.
Actually I was not in a mood to watch movies, I was too tensed about clearing
the exams, and I couldn’t think of anything else much.
Back to Mysore for the third term I got to know that it was
impossible to clear the exam on my own so I cleared most of the theory exams
with the ‘help’ of my friend and scored even more horribly in the practicals. It
was the same case in Compre. But as Compre had 50 – 50 split I couldn’t clear
it. I was held back at Mysore. That didn’t affect me much as I had few friends
remaining. I think the job location mail came post that, where there was a huge
riot about getting the desired location. As we had house shifting work in
progress, I badly wanted Chennai DC. But there were many rumors saying that it
was tough to get Chennai DC. Naturally I was worried. During the job location
mail few had got the location that they didn’t want and there was a lot of commotion
to get the desired location with even money transfers. It was like one of those
share market office in Wolf of Wall Street. So much fun. Luckily I got Chennai
DC and was happy.
One among them failed in every test but cleared in every re
test. What affected me the most was, when I failed even in retest. That’s when
I truly felt horrible. To wave to the guys who cleared the retest from the
swiping place felt beyond worse. That’s when I truly felt alone. So when I got
to know that I’d be sent in, in spite of failing but securing about 50 I
couldn’t share my joy with anyone. In fact, I wasn’t even feeling joyful. I was
very much concerned. Without even knowing what I was concerned about.
Even though my stay at Mysore was horrific and panic
stricken. I still had my moments. The first few and the last few weekends in
ECC. Playing nonstop and watching movies standing in full queue. Amazing food.
Mythri tandoori chicken and Arena Egg Gobi Manchurian was like wow. Best of the
lot would be watching ‘Enthiran’ FDFS in Mysore. Standing in queue at 5 AM. It
was like a ‘we have arrived’ moment for TN people to be there at first. Like
how ‘Sairat’ was for Marathi people. I remember screaming our voices out for
every single scene. Thankfully the movie was good too. The commotion started at
the time when mail came when we were in classroom. Also the problem of people
shouting in multiplex came during our stay when ‘Dabangg’ was screened.
When I was in Mysore I used to get a lot of forward mails,
many interesting ones. Wish this mail too gets viral and reaches folks in
Mysore now and forever.
After failing in re-compre and getting job on compassionate
grounds. I came by Shatabdi to Chennai DC. The train journey was boring. Just
because I was given a refund I booked through that train. I should have booked
night train. Enroute home I got KFC chicken as a treat, for family which felt
good. We watched ‘Aadukalam’ in Woodlands. It was a bad choice. We couldn’t
hear anything because the sound systems were horrible. If I had gone with
friends I’d have enjoyed it better with the crowd.
I was anxious even in those Pongal holidays. I went to
office on day 1 by taking Infy bus from my bus stop. It had absolutely no
stops. The whole bus got full in our bus stop. Luckily I had Selva with me. And
that was the only day I was awake the whole journey. I felt terribly sleepy yet
I was awake to see how far it was. It was indeed very far. As soon as I set my
foot in FC2 I felt dejected. I don’t know the reason. Something didn’t feel
right. I wanted to send a last day mail ever since.
The first week I stayed in ECC, so all I did was login the
common system and sleep in ECC. It was fun. There were lot of friends too so
passing my time wasn’t tough. I’m anyways good at keeping myself occupied with
something. The first problem started with second week. Bus journey was taking a
toll out of me. Daily 4 hours was impossible. Plus, to maintain 9.15 hours, one
has to run to swipe out again. It was like a game between Selva and I who used
to come to bus only at 5.15 so I had to run once he swipes out. He once said
that one has to warm up before getting into the bus. It was so true.
Like any human being, I got used to the travel and spent my
bench days reading books and newspapers. From morning 8.30 to 11.30 i used to
read them nonstop and eat lunch sharp at 11.45 and go to dorm. Dorm was heaven.
True dark heaven. That used to be my routine mostly for two months. Sometimes I
felt I was wasting my time so used the second half to read as well. During one
of those sleepovers in dorm every one of us sleeping in adjacent beds got call
one by one regarding a project opportunity. I was shit scared and thankfully
didn’t do well. Half of us didn’t get selected. I was happy that my bench days were
going to last.
That was my first official entry to ‘work’. Initially it was
mentioned that I’d be in bench till March 31 so I mentally prepared what all
I’ll do till then, like how I prepared before getting a date of joining for
Infosys. But like before, here too I didn’t get that luck. Guess by January
weekend I got into this project which I didn’t work at all. It was coding and I
sucked at it. And I didn’t try at all too. I was busy reading ‘Fountainhead’.
One day my TL said that he’d give bad comments about me if someone asks his
opinion. Vasanth and Ashwin were in my project which lasted about a month. In
that we got a treat from Ashwin whom we hardly knew. Nothing much to say about
this project apart from this. Just got another friend.
My official hell started with this project. For some reason
I was shit scared to code. It had the latest of java technology too. The
project lasted for months but when I think back, it felt like it lasted
forever. That was my worst phase of life where I used to go home and cry. I
took leave and just sat home for many days. On the other days I wouldn’t even
try to work. I’ll just exist. I only knew how to do an Ant build. Whenever I
was asked to code I got panic attack. I tried to get a transfer to Shols, which
too didn’t happen. I tried to get out of this job somehow but didn’t know what
to do, for I sucked at everything. I truly understood the meaning of
depression. It’s not what you hear people say, “I feel depressed” It’s a real
depression where you’d be okay with even being killed in an accident. Many time
while sleeping in bus I would be thinking that I shouldn’t get up. I should
have passed away but unfortunately I was alive.
I went for my first project party from there to Barbeque
Nation which was awesome. If I turn back, I feel that as the happiest moment
there. I’ve never known that such a place existed. It was feast. Later the next
year I took my family to Vadapalani branch for my dad’s retirement treat. Which
they liked but got diarrhea.
I used to hang out with Balaji, Umapathy for coffee breaks
near coffee machine in B7. That was bench place so people used to he happily
playing around with only me being in the project. I used to escape from my
place by 5 PM when my TL goes for smoking break. Every day 5 PM used to be the
best time for me. I knew it was going to be hell the next day but still I
longed for that 5 PM to get to 5.20 bus. The hell lasted for six months and
finally I was released out of the project. That time rating used to be for 5
points in the project and my manager gave me 1.9.
I finally got the much acclaimed role that I wanted for but
I didn’t even realize it. I was put into some Java project in BOFA. EJB I guess.
I sucked at coding so needless to say, in EJB I was pathetic. I was given an
assignment to do for which I went to Vimal’s house to do it. I still feel
horrific thinking about how I felt whenever I’m given a work. Panic would be my
first reaction. I had fever that night but went to my friend Vimal’s house to
finish the project. I did too but I couldn’t copy from it to BOFA as mails were
blocked from outside network.
I then got another project, got few other friends, Saranya
and Rashmi. I was again given assignments I again failed. I was told that to
get me into project various discussion happened. My TL then told that he tried
a lot to get me into project but clients didn’t accept. The whole circumstance
suggested as if it was my mistake. It’s not because of coding that I didn’t
get. I didn’t get for some other reason like budgeting, ramp down etc. All
these things I didn’t know back then, so for every instance I started feeling
bad. I took it upon myself. Depression started again.
During this tenure I started writing stories in Mcity INK
public folder, fondly called as BB. Much about this later. I again went for a
couple of project party or treat with these people and that’s how much my team
engagement was. This INK folder, I used to vociferously read, there was a blog
too for all the stories. That was the time BB was at its peak. There were
legends like Varun B Krishnan, Karthik Lakshmanan in my previous batch. I
somehow got to know about Karthik and read his Infy blog. His stories were pure
fun. Nothing fancy. No fancy English. No fancy premise. No fancy style. But
pure unadulterated fun. I must say that he’s a gifted writer. If you see my
articles most of the time you’d feel the struggle of my emotions, what all I’ve
undergone. That brings out few great articles, at the same time also churns out
some basic stuffs because it’s tough for me to write a good article on
something which hasn’t inspired me, even though I can basically write on
anything I want.
That Karthik was working as commentator in one of the
upcoming cricket website back then and I somehow got his contact and even got
the job. When I think about it now I feel how far my determination had taken me
and really glad about it. But the whole problem started there. At that time, I
just had only one month to get confirmed. If I file resignation before that
it’d take only one month, otherwise it’ll take three months. It’s just like
shifting to any other job and even the salary wasn’t very less. But I panicked.
I didn’t have the guts to move out and the emotional drama in my family didn’t
help. What should have been my happiest phase where I got my dream job ended up
be the disastrous phase of my life.
I wanted to discuss about this, take advice from someone. So
talked to my then TL about it and told her not to inform anyone. And you know what’s
the first thing she did? Informed it to the PM. That meant I wouldn’t be put
into the project. And eventually gave me below average rating, I expected at
least a Met Expectations because I hadn’t done any mistake. It’s not my problem
that client didn’t want another resource in project. But those things I didn’t
know then so accepted the rating sadly. There was another team member called as
Maruthi in the team whom I talked to, after I got this opportunity. There are
few people in our life who’d have such clear thoughts. He told that to quit,
thinking that the work is tough, is foolish. He asked, “How many people do you
think can code ‘Hello World’, so don’t quit thinking that this job is tough. If
you really want another job go ahead for it. Even I used to write poems in INK
and wanted to be in Hindu office but I ended up being here.” That gave me
clarity then. Thinking about that is still making me emotional.
I would have gone for the job if my parents had been
supportive but daily dinner was hell to see my dad sit like that. Even though
he said to take up the job, he was down all the time, I couldn’t bear to see
them. Finally, they won. I lost. I decided not to join the job. And decided to
slog it out here in Infosys no matter what. Do everything to keep myself busy.
Both physically and mentally. That’s when a string of activities started and
officially my worst year in life (2011) ended. I’ll mention about the clubs
later one by one post my project experiences.
After being in bench for about 1.5 years I finally got into
BOFA project. The same project which I gave interview for when I was sleeping
in dorm. May be its not 1.5 years of bench but whatever project I did before I
didn’t really work or was scared to do so, so I won’t consider that as work. I
got the project through my friend Vimal who was in the project.
The first phase of the project was hell, where my reverse KT
session lasted for 6 months. I’m not a person who cries in public (except while
watching movies) but one of those days I had a confrontation with my TL and
cried in bus. The worst phase seemed to continue. Every day I’d feel bad about
not having latched on to that job I got. Every day was a torture. I tortured
myself more with increasing number of activities in office, read books
vociferously and watched movies rigorously. I hardly got 6 hours to sleep. I
was so tired physically and mentally that I couldn’t think about anything else.
After months and months of memorizing architecture of my
project, suffering hopelessly with work, handling escalations because of a Sev
1 caused by me. Finally, those people went onsite, then to some other company.
My friend too went onsite. Next set of people joined project, it was far better
than the first and was able to somehow manage as there wasn’t much work. I was
given a good rating by then manager. Who was also supporting me whenever I
asked for leaves for travel. That was a good gesture from him.
Soon those people too quit and left the project. Post that
only 3 of us where there in the project. Even though two of us in that, hated
the other person, it was still fun. I hardly worked. I was having time of my
life for two years with hardly any work. That meant I was involved in even more
extracurricular activities. So life was going on smooth. I forgot about my
dream job completely. May be I had come to terms with life and accepted that I
couldn’t do it anymore.
Then came 2015, my best year of life, may be yet, I can’t
comment on 2019 till the year end as it’s not over yet. Even though 2015
started with a break up, things were terrific post that. I got into a theatre
club, started a movie club, published my book, and completed my long term dream
of riding Ladakh and lots more.
By the end of 2015 when one of my best friend Smitha’s
marriage was fixed and the rain wreaked havoc, things started to go awry in my
life. My teammate and I were split to initiative and support and I had to
handle whole of support activities, though not much work, it was an irritating
job. Around year end I was put into a work which sucked the life out of me. Had
to take cabs every week and direct interaction with client was annoying. Client
being an ex-Infoscion. But I was okay with the work because I wanted to get
distracted from monotony. That 2015 rain did something irreparable. It was
tough to come out of it. The theatre group I was part of, got split and one
among them got married. So it was tough to digest. In January I went for her
marriage in spite of having an exam the next week.
Post that came the next set of teammates. For the first part
to give them KT and forming a team was fun. With Shalini, Pavithra and Mouni it
felt as if I got new set of cousins. I got interest to come to office again
because there were people to talk to. Among that Shalini became my close friend
in project. That’s one lucky thing. Somehow I get one good friend from a set of
people. In first set I had Vimal who was my best friend even before the
project, next got Akhil, then Shalini. There were share of detractors too whom
I don’t feel like naming. One went out of the project soon, thanks to the
ladies, the other one lasted the distance in spite of so many mishaps.
The next two years we had rapid work with more tense than
good moments. Sometime in the middle Shalini and Geetha got out of the project.
I had my Visa initiation for H1B in 2015 but got rejected in the lottery, then
again next year even though it got selected in lottery, it got rejected in RFE.
That was the first time many rejections happened due to RFE. Not sure whether
there was any conspiracy or just my luck. Anyways it didn’t affect me much as
all I wanted was piece of mind. But when even that didn’t happen that’s what
affected me. The only reason I was interested to go onsite was my onsite
manager Vaibhav Bansal. He was brilliant and the best manager I’ve worked
under. In fact, till he was there all my managers were fine people who helped
me a lot. If I had gone when Vaibhav was there at onsite it’d have been a great
learning curve for me. But unfortunately it didn’t happen.
Then we were four people here at Chennai and two people at Hyderabad
and one onsite. The only thing common between us Chennai folks were mutual
hatred in between each one of us. We had our moments, no denying that. Despite
the indifference between us, between client and us, between onsite and us we
still delivered the project well and good. Slogged long hours during weekend,
almost every alternate weekend, not without complaints though.
2018, by far my worst year in life, saw the team succumbing
to pressure. People started leaving one by one. No onsite from our team. At the
start of the year I thought of taking a break from work for around a year or
something. It was too tough to handle with unreasonable and un-understanding
clients and no backup from our team seniors. Obviously that was rejected too. I
thought of quitting and almost went to e-sep page but just like before I didn’t
have the guts to do it. Accepted the fate for one more year and completed 2018.
It was horrible yes but it somehow I completed it and finally got a release
from project.
I never wanted to quit infy as far as I know but that was
the phase I got exposed to incompetent management. There were two instances
mainly, because of which I was fed up with the project. First was my 2017
appraisal cycle. The opening line of it was ‘do you know how many escalations
you’ve got from a client?’ Even a person accused with murder would have got a
better opening line in the trial. Yes, it was like that, acquisition after
acquisition. The call went for one hour where I had listed what all I had
worked. Each point was described in a detailed manner as to what I did. It was
more like an interview where whenever I answered, it was greeted with an “ok”,
whenever I did any mistake I was said “so you didn’t do this too”. I never had
such horrible appraisal meeting in my life
Post that some of the big shots got released from the
project and the pressure from client side became enormous because of a
migration a project. It wasn’t a way where people worked together but just work
was shoved up. Even if we tell them that we don’t know, they’ll say, “okay
we’ll work together” but ask for updates when onsite joins. Such pathetic work
culture.
It got better out of me and I got panic attack a number of
times. Even if not an attack I’d be in constant panic stricken mode. So the
2011 was happening to me all over again. I knew that it was not going to end.
Till I remain in a job I don’t like, I have to face it. Even now, with my
decision I’m just postponing the inevitable. So I asked my manager for a long
leave for one year. He said I’d have to take it up with HR. and the question I
got there was, “where did I get job” All the opening lines in my life has been
great isn’t it. I explained I didn’t, I am stressed with work. I was told
greater the power, greater the responsibility. So I knew that it was not going
to be of any use. I thought of quitting and almost decided to do it (again).
But again I didn’t have to guts to and didn’t do it, this time I even went
close to logging in web apps but I didn’t apply. I knew from a friend that a
manager can grant leave for 90 days without any approval but my manager
couldn’t do that too. As usual I strained myself physically and mentally to go
forward with next year
The final team I worked gave me another good friend, Sathya.
That’s the only good thing about me. At every juncture I got one best friend to
save me out of disaster. But seriously 2018 was the worst year. Worse than
2011. Because in 2018 I failed in something which I loved so much and strived
so hard for it apart from office tension. That was very hard to digest.
It was the same till October. The second instance for my
decision came in because of the ways my leaves were handled. Till that day I hadn’t
taken even a single unplanned leave. But when I said about my leaves it was
rejected. I didn’t have any backup option. I told them multiple times still it
was rejected. On top of it there were two long weekends I had plans and the
release happened in those two weekends. This after I applied for leaves. I was
asked to cancel the leaves which I didn’t as I already applied. My lead and
manager didn’t inform about my absence till the day of my leave. Clients kept
on assigning task for me to do on that weekend. That’s when I saw how cunning
and clever people could get to escape from a situation. Needless to say when my
absence was informed at the last minute, clients were unhappy. They asked my
superior and that superior’s reply was that they tried so hard to hold me back
but it didn’t happen. Nowhere was it mentioned that I applied beforehand. Even
if not easy they could have said while planning that one resource would not be
available as he had leave plans but of course they wouldn’t do it, because it
would get them out of client’s good books. Eventually I was escalated, what a
fool proof plan isn’t it. Will go even Hitchcock begging. My irritation was
beyond words. Sathya felt genuinely bad for me. She even asked me why not
cancel plans at least once. I liked the concern. You don’t get it easily in
work environment.
And the worst of all happened last. On one of those weekends
where I took leave. Leave on weekends, ha ha, what an oxymoron. But yea that’s
how my project was. I don’t know how one is supposed to say what weekends
they’d have plan and what weekends they’d not. I never got an explanation for
it. May be we were supposed to take care of our life only when there is no
release. Okay so coming back to the story, on one release weekend, I was sick
on a Monday morning and messaged in the group saying that I’m ill and couldn’t
come to office. Reply to it by my lead, in the group was, “Vikram everyone
knows that you are not sick”. Well, I haven’t seen a sick reply from anyone
like this before. Share me your stories if any. I had taken a screenshot of
that to send to HR but to again sit in same place and face those people would
be hell. Not that I was not willing to fight but I was irritated to do so decided
against it. I feel like attaching here too but let me not be that sick. And
yeah that was the final nail in the coffin where I decided I’ll quit.
The last quarter was fantastic, the releases got over, there
were less work, good things were happening in my life too. Finally, in December
I got a mail that my ID would be revoked by Dec 31. Such an awesome management,
I got to know it through automated mail. I thought its general thing which
happens every year where we extend our access. But only after mailing whether I’ve
to do anything for it, a discussion happened that I’ll be out of the project
and asked me to not feel bad about it. Feel bad? You got to be kidding. That
too the meeting happened because of another lead who joined new, if it was the
previous person I wouldn’t have even got reply for the mail.
The last week in BOFA was the best. Most of the teammates
and clients were on leave. Only Mani, Sathya and I were in office. Those were
days that we didn’t even feel like going by 5.20 bus. Otherwise it’d be a huge
fight to leave early. By early I mean 5.20 bus, after clocking 9.15 hours in
office. There were clever people who came to office by 12 and ‘extended’ till 7
to meet ‘client’ requirements. No one questioned them as they had good rapport
with client as they both were engaged in daily calls where clients would get
free info about who is doing what in the team. Such a brilliant plan. Wish I
had brains like that.
I heard that after my release when there was casual talk in
the project, it was discussed like they gave me release only because I asked.
Yea correct, how did I forget that, I asked in 2017 December and it happened so
quickly in 2018 December after getting all their work done. If that’s the case,
why wasn’t I informed that they’re planning to give me release before I saw the
mail?
2019 has been the best New Year. I’ve never been happier to
come to office on a New Year. I don’t think I’ve been on a New Year without any
plans but that day I was. Lokesh, my best friend from school days, too had come
to office so most part of the day went in office. As it was New Year’s Eve even
he didn’t have much work. Afternoon we went to dorm and went by 5.20 bus. Next
day I sat in another colleague’s system and the third day even that system was
occupied. Then came to B4 were there were many bench mates. Thanks to them I
got a group for lunch and also a system to survive.
First two weeks went in a jiffy as Lokesh, I and another
friend were busy planning for our Pattaya trip. That wasn’t like any trip
before. Most of the time I was busy doing something. Either travel planning,
blogging or preparing for interview. I’m a busy man when I’m free. The next two
months were lovely. Most of the March went off in vacation and in that gap I
was put in Microsoft project where the manager said it had cloud technology and
also there were Work from Home option so I was okay with it even if I don’t get
another job
After coming out of BOFA everything else felt wonderful. So
Microsoft, needless to say was pleasant. Work wasn’t heavy. It was difficult to
know things like the document location, process etc. but that would be there in
any project. Work wise it was reasonable even though there wasn’t anything new
to learn. Though I heard some reviews, my manager and people around me where
good to me. So I don’t have any complaints. I got offer within a couple of
weeks into the project. Only regret is I didn’t get early release and rest, but
it was okay. There was no pressure here and also was getting salary so no
complaints.
Now, this requires a separate book, which I’ve already done,
so let me tell you my journey into the salsa club. Tagged as the most happening
club, it was indeed one. Never thought I would use the word ‘was’ for it,
because it was always crowded, even when other clubs were not.
So after my decision to not quit the company, as I told
before, I decided to tire myself out physically and mentally. I saw some dance
practice happening next to the bowling alley. Boys and girls were dancing
together in a circle, especially a lot of good looking girls. I was hesitant
but went inside and asked for details. Luckily for me, the new batch started
the next week and I joined. Even though I was shit scared because there were
really good looking women out there, the fact that the classes were free made
me join. And it was one of the best decision I took in my life. It was
completely out of my comfort zone. I was zero at dancing but now I can
confidently dance in any socials. Thanks to the instructors and of course my
will to pursue. Dhanush said in one of his interview, “if I can act, anyone
can” Similarly I’d say, “if I can dance anyone can”. That’s how pathetic I was.
I joined the Rueda batch, the circle dance I was talking
about. I think I missed the first class, so I along with few people were taught
separately before getting into the bigger circle. I was scared beyond words and
was not at all grabbing the steps. I still remember my first dancing partner,
Priya. It took a really long time to get the steps. I was much slower than many
out there. Varun was my first instructor who kept the class lively, it was fun
to go. That was one thing I was looking forward to on every Tuesday and
Thursday.
Then came the LA batch, it was one to one salsa and for me
was tougher than Rueda, anyways I enrolled in that too. I enrolled in
everything which came my way. That too took me a really long time to grasp. I
would forever be thankful to Maggi to have helped me get hammerlock. I was
absent for the class for a week which spoilt my confidence completely. Thanks
to her patience, she taught me again and again and again. More than the male
instructors, the female instructors were down to earth and helped me learn my
steps.
After a while I got well versed with steps and could dance
with anybody. That was the peak period when I was on bench. My only motivation
to come to office during that time would be salsa. I’d be waiting eagerly for
time to become 5. On top of it, I had a crush there who was luckily in my bus,
even more luckily became my friend. After the classes we used to take last bus
and talk about salsa even there. She was a very good dancer too. While she was
about to quit infy, she was asking me when I’d be quitting, I said I’d never.
She told what’s the point in being forever in Infy and then finally said, “ya
you can become instructor”. That was my only motivation. Not to become PM, SPM
etc. but to be a salsa instructor. I couldn’t because the group collapsed and
started new after a while, I couldn’t use my experience around that time and
also had tough time becoming close with most. Even though I was reasonably good
friends with people there. Looking back, it all looks silly. But one thing for
sure, I learnt salsa properly.
So the first set of instructors Varun, Satish, Sandy were
great, from whom I learnt majority of dancing. My personal favorites were Sandy
and Midhu. Sandy was a great sport and Midhu was a terrific dancer, loved
dancing with her. Post that there was a brief hiatus, as people went onsite,
quit Infy etc. but again thanks to Sami and Azar it happened again. I’ve seen
Sami during the class previously, not sure about Azar but they somehow
regrouped and we had full house for some time. I didn’t enjoy it as much as I
used to, as mostly I had to sit out during class and join only during socials.
But that sitting out in the stairs opposite laundromat too was fun. We had
great chats. The thing is I didn’t want to stop as it’s a skill I had acquired
surprisingly well. So continued doing it.
Things went awry after some sort of rift, I’m not quite
clear as I wasn’t close with anyone but that spoilt the aura around the class.
The footfall greatly reduced and eventually stopped. Even the club was
dismantled. I never, in my wildest dream, thought that it would happen but it
did. Nevertheless, thanks for all the memories. Salsa is something which
instigated confidence in me, got me a lot of female friends and let me acquire
a definite skill. Back then I was not a confident person unlike now so that
helped me shape my personality to a great extent.
Simultaneously, when Salsa club was happening I had enrolled
in Theatre Club to. I in fact registered for it before the start of Salsa club
and also did a performance on stage when I was in project. It was great fun
being part of any production. Especially late night practice and dubbing
process was too good. For a week I totally forgot about what was happening in
project. Though my part mostly involved sleeping on stage it still was great to
do something in front of the crowd. I did a couple of other performances too I
believe, before it getting dismantled.
During the other three days of the week I mostly played
badminton with the bat which I got like during my 8th standard. A
400 rupees Yonex, which I’m still using. For some reason I wasn’t interested in
gymming, I was rather interested in playing some sport so I played this as it
came naturally to me. I was good at it, even if not great. Had few great
matches with people around there. There used to be a lot of crowd around that
time where we had to wait for two matches to get slot but it was all worth it,
like any sport it gave me a high.
This is something I had seen only in TV and tried once in
Mysore with a horrible rented bat. Once in Mcity I played it on few days. One
of my friend Michael had a bat which I borrowed to play. I didn’t buy a new one
as it was costly. I used to play with few of my friends or random people. I
never knew that Squash is such a tiring game. But like any other sport, it came
naturally to me. I was able to play well right from the word go. Even if I
couldn’t win the match I would be very involved in the game. Also got a bat as
present from one of my friend. Unfortunately, couldn’t play it much post then.
On the days that I didn’t bring dress for playing or some
very tiring days I used to play Pool. Vasanth and I used to go there initially.
It took me a while to learn it but within a few months’ time I started playing
well. It was so addictive. As it’s something which is not physically demanding,
my mind would make me go for it instead of other sports. During initial days,
getting a snooker board was a miracle but I successfully crossed that stage and
played in it. Nowadays I could play both. Again, if not great I could
definitely play an interesting match.
It was 45 rupees per person initially. We used to go there
once in a while during initial days. It was my go to place when I get a new girlfriend
or trying to get one. I felt it was a great ice breaker. It came naturally to
me. When in Mysore I used to play really well and almost even qualified for
tournament. I got 147 points but had to get 150 to qualify. For Chennai
standards, 147 is a winning score. Personally I liked the Mysore alley best
with music and lighting but Chennai had a bigger, wider space I believe. As
it’s not free I didn’t do it on regular basis. The new ice hockey table
opposite to it is a cool addition to the place.
During my initial days I used to do freestyle in the pool.
But the swimming days got me too tired. Tired beyond how much I wanted to tire
myself, spoiling my book reading routine in bus so I went very few days. Also I
personally don’t like it, if my legs touch the floor. I don’t feel like
swimming at all. So didn’t go much. Once I learnt breast stroke I started going
regularly and did laps. My highest was 500 meters I think which I completed in
half an hour. Unfortunately, with too many other interests I couldn’t continue
doing it.
After all the above said activity, I finally settled for gym
and went there on a continuous basis. My body structure and weight doesn’t
change much. As far as I’ve known I’ve always been of same weight, plus or
minus two kg at max. So with result not showing it was difficult to continue
gymming. Nevertheless, I continued. I wanted a reason to escape out of my
place. Gym provided a nice escapade. Thanks to Vishal Sikka, the gym timing got
changed so I went in the morning for cardio and evening for weights.
Something came up in the evenings so I had to go home early.
And because of certain fitness regime for trekking I started doing only cardio
in the morning. I read a quote to make treadmill as a friend but I made
treadmill my best friend. I slowly increased time and speed. I ran around the
campus on Friday nights whenever I had release the next day. In treadmill, I
wanted to run 15km/h in 15 minutes but maximum I could do was 13 km/h in 15 minutes
and 15 km/h in 10 minutes. Also on road, I wanted to run 5k in 20 minutes but
don’t know whether it’ll ever happen. But like every other activity I’ll keep
fighting for it.
This is a trekking club which was started around 5 years
back I guess. Karthick Kabali started it and I went with them for a trek to
Kudremukh. It was fun. Once he left to the US I took over it and organized a
Mid Sea Diving cum Paintball expedition. When I was a member I couldn’t
participate much because it was planned just a few days before. I couldn’t organize
too for the same reason. I generally have all my plan sorted out four months
prior, so that I could book train tickets but at such long notice people
generally don’t join. That’s why couldn’t do much with the group.
Even if it was only one trek, I got good number of friends
from it, who continue to be in touch and with few of them I’ve done repeated
treks on my own. Not being able to effectively use this club is one of my
disappointments.
The below blog link of mine has my travelogues and
trekkalogues. If someone wants to plan your future travel, feel free to contact
me or drop a comment in my blog. I’ll be glad to help you out. I’ve a WhatsApp
group where I put up my future plans. If interested, I’ll add you to the group
as well.
Travel Diaries – https://constantscribbles.wordpress.com/category/travelogue/
May be one my biggest disappointment is that I couldn’t be
part of the club. I gave an audition once and couldn’t get into it. Being so
fond of music, it’d have been great if I could have performed. But it could
never happen. I anyhow was part of most of their shows in Mcity as a spectator.
Live music is always a thrill.
Don’t know how many people know that there existed a
scrabble club in Infy. Even though I wasn’t interested in being locked up in a
room and filling out the words, I still went ahead and joined it just to get a
heck of it. I didn’t find it interesting but.
One club which never really worked for me. I was part of it
as a guest during the initial days and tried to participate in few meets but
couldn’t get interest at all in spite of repeatedly going. Further, it being a
paid club for talking, I couldn’t really buy it. I’m sure there are lot of
people who have got enriched by the club. But it was just not for me.
Like I said above, I’m a hesitant dancer. On top of it, if
it’s an audition, I suck big time. So I attended couple of auditions, hardly
performed and wasn’t selected. Just like Dhwani, I attended few of their
performances in Infy.
By far my biggest disappointment being in Infy. I somehow
wanted to play at least one match in the ground but couldn’t. I could have
easily stopped going to the rest of the sports/activities and joined cricket
but I couldn’t make myself do that. I have a long history of disappointment
with cricket which I don’t want to talk about now. But every time I pass the
cricket ground I feel sad.
This was magic, came out of the blue and swept me off my
feet. During one of my low points of personal life, I joined this club. Just
like how I’m a hesitant dancer, I’m very much camera shy as well, that means I
can’t act. Don’t know whether it boosted my confidence in acting but it gave me
lifelong friends. It was a small group but most of us are still in touch, in
fact everyone are very close friends and get along really well. It’s one group
where we discuss absolutely anything. No holds barred. I’m thankful for this
group to have given me one of the closest set of friends. They are my first
audience in whatever I do, love talking to them and the interest is mutual.
We did a play to the public successfully and many of us made
many a short film as well as acted, edited in others works. So in all it is a
great creative group to be with.
During my BOFA bench days I joined this club. Jeeva and I
did. When it started we thought it’d be a great club but ended up being a damp
squib. At first it started of great, we learnt few moves, practiced it well and
was physically taxing but with time it became very uninteresting, there were
hardly any people and the master too wasn’t showing any interest. Main problem was
the timings. It never adhered to proper timings, that’s why many couldn’t plan
their work to attend it.
It’s a personalized google. Best example of how diverse
people in Infy are. As there are people from all walks of life, you get
personalized answer to whatever you ask. You feel welcomed to ask whatever you
want. There is not even a hint of rudeness. Helped me in great deal to know
about routes, travel plans, tax savings and whole lot of general opinion. I
also learnt a great deal of current affairs and politics which I generally
don’t read in newspaper. So the routine of reading newspaper in the morning
followed by personalized opinion in general BB was a great way to learn a lot
many things.
Got the writer in me kickin’. As you can see I can
effortlessly write pages and pages for any topic. For the first time, got a fan
base for me. At that time BB was flourishing. There used to be competitions as
well as stories. I didn’t win any competition, but both in BB as well as in
Infy Blog I had some ardent followers, who ping/mail me as soon as I put up a
post. It was great fun to write all the stories. The first story started all of
a sudden but from the next story I put some sincere effort to form a proper
structure. I maintained strict timelines and posted exactly at the same time
every day. I got creative with a number of posts I did. In addition to it I
posted few of my reviews too but thanks to being in ODC I couldn’t continue the
habit post my bench days
There were days when I would hide my ID card and go, wanting
people to find out, this is the Vikram who wrote that story. Crazy me. But it
felt great to post those stories and go for breakfast, to come back and see a
lot many mails in inbox. Made me feel special.
Those interested can find my stories and reviews in my
personal blog link.
Stories and musings –
https://constantscribbles.wordpress.com/category/just-like-that/
Movie Reviews –
https://constantscribbles.wordpress.com/category/movie-reviews/
Book Reviews –
https://constantscribbles.wordpress.com/category/book-reviews/
I used to follow Paul Prateek Appaswamy and Srivathasa’s
movie quiz. Though I couldn’t get much correct answer I liked knowing about the
movies and watching it. I’m more of an analyzer than answerer so didn’t get
answers easily. After a while I started Rapid Fire movie quiz. It was quite a
rage. I started exactly at 2 PM on Friday so people know when it would happen.
sometimes the answers would come so fast that I no time to process it. Again
ODC made me stop doing it. I don’t share about these things in team so couldn’t
really let them know about it and postpone the meetings. I apologize for
stopping the quiz quite suddenly.
Another dying folder in BB. People who had been there for
years would know the legend behind “Sammy will lift the cup”. It was a ROFL
moment. There were some sincere fans for sports BB. Not just cricket but a lot
of Tennis and Football too. Loved the Nadal vs Federer fight. Loved the days
when how people were so emotional during Sachin’s retirement, even though I’m a
Dravid fan. It was a great conversation page for me.
Something I discovered later than the other public folders
but has been my greatest learning curve. Because I didn’t have a SLR to shoot
my first short film I bought one and ever since then learnt great many things
from this BB. I posted no more than 3 photos which got bad reviews. But
couldn’t post beyond that. Not because I got bad reviews but I got busy with my
other hobbies. Post Processing was so time consuming and also I hate to sit in
front of computer. So I couldn’t learn as well as couldn’t continue editing.
Going forward I’ll definitely do as I’ve completed few obligations which kept
me from doing it.
The extension of the above involvement in BB led to the
writing of book. This happened in my most happening year of my life. It’s been
a lifelong dream. I wanted to write it when I’m 35 but I could do it at 25.
Again Infy was a great source of inspiration for this. Both story wise as well
as encouragement. Guess more than 50 percent of the copies I’d have sold only
in Infy. Thanks to my friends and well-wishers. It was a great feeling when
people ask to sign the copy of my book. And every time I see my book I feel
great, thinking how well have I written. It’s a truly original piece and I can
confidently say that none have employed my style till now.
For people who want to grab a copy. It’s in the below link.
I’d be grateful if you do so. Please do get back to me with your reviews of the
book.
https://notionpress.com/read/neha
It’s available in leading e-commerce sites like flip kart,
amazon as well. The name is Neha – Yet Another Love Story
Last but not the least. I’m happy that my last day last
instance in Infy is going in end doing what I like doing the best. It’s been a
four-year-old club with lots and lots of interesting talks. Like Tyrion said,
“A wise man once said the true history of the world is a history of great
conversations in elegant rooms” That’s exactly what we did.
There is something to the movies which ignite passion in
people. It’s mostly unexplainable but when it’s explained it’s pure joy. When
there are people who share your passion and tell the same thing in different
way, it excites you beyond words. I got the whole of idea of this club from a
DL I was part of Infy_Movies. It was a great forum where people discussed
passionately about movies.
Through Lights On, again, I got great friends for life, many
went on to become film makers, many are happy to have known the way to critique
a film and to top it all it was great to find a group of like-minded people to
discuss movies. We’ve had times when the hall was full, the Premam day, Kamal
Hassan episode etc. and there were when very few turned up like Citizen Kane,
Man with a movie Camera etc. We discussed great many films ranging from basic
to extreme Avant grade. Something which many wouldn’t have watched if not for
Lights On.
And it’s great to hear from people who come from different
organization who say that nowhere else there is a film appreciation club. We
also brought in few celebrities, conducted workshops and did screening of many
short films by Infoscions. Many of us shot our first short film with the help
of friends from Lights On. Above all, we are proud to say that not even a
single Monday had gone past without a Lights On meet, no matter what. Until and
unless there is a holiday or a forced evacuation we made sure the meet happens.